Anal Sex
Do you know what my favorite part of sex is? It’s the “after-sex.”
It’s not that I don’t love long bouts of foreplay and intense sex, but the key to good sex is actually wanting that person in your bed after the sex is finished.
I don’t know about you, but for me there’s nothing worse than when the act of sex is over and while you’re staring at the ceiling and looking at the stranger next to you in bed, all you’re doing is wishing they were your dog on the floor. I know that sounds harsh.
The bottom line is if you got laid just for the sake of being laid, then that person laying next to you in bed might as well be invisible. We’ve all been there.
We’ve all had sex with someone because we were so turned on to them in the moment, that you had to ravage their body from head to toe and spend a blissful hour or two having sex. Yes, I believe that sex should be a couple hours of fun.
You meet someone. You have some great mental foreplay. You turn each other on via text messaging. You go out for a drink. You’re crawling all over each other. You have no idea who this person is, but all you want to do is get down and dirty with them.
You go back to your house or their house. You ravage each other for a couple hours. You get off. Then you’re staring at the ceiling saying “Who is this person, and how do I get them to leave?”
Which brings us to the whole point of this blog.